It's as simple as ABC - in fact it's simpler (compared to 3 choices of alphabets, you only have two choices - in / out).
Yet it's so hard to make the decision.
In - go into it and do it wholeheartedly without thinking much of the other alternative pathway to runaway. Just Do It, as nike says. No matter how hard it is, all you need to do is to resolve all the obstables which hinder you move forward. In, in, go inside and reach the top!
Out - Be decisive and say "no". Quit it when you think the situation is not right. Just turn it OFF. Or SMASH it. Out, it's another wisdom - not to mean give up, but find something else new, start afresh.
Most of the time, we are trapped in between - in or out. In the end, we reserve our energy, feeling , effort etc. This is a waste of time because we lost. As if a zombie, days pass but when asked: what have you done? the standard answer: i don't know. Some rather fool themselves, I am patiently waiting for something to happen. Well, waiting and waiting. Repeating day after day routine. In the end, you forget what you are waiting and even the opportunity comes, you miss it.
How sad! And seriously, i am trapped..