Monday, March 24, 2008

Imperfect Family...what is perfect anyway?

Finished watching the first season of Brothers & Sisters...wow, good show! That's what i must say. Under the grand and furnished roof, there are conflicts in the family, while it seems perfect for the family: successful family members, with great career and social status...yet, in chinese, we said. "jia jia you ben nan nian de jing" means every single family has its own script that is hard to be read. That is simply just TRUE.

Just coming back from home, besides enjoying the warmth and enthusiasm of family, also, again feeling the pressures of my parents. Wanna everything being well done, their intensities sometimes are just too much, pushing us...sometimes, with small unwanted mistakes, we are being blamed like doing something completely wrong, enough to be hanged to death!

Well, after all, we are a family. Mum is always be dominant. Dad is always playing the passive part. Understanding is something very important to be existed. As the elder daughter, i have already grown up, an adult, must not throw tantrum as i like anymore. Try to think and analyze every incident from different angles. However, i prefer to be alone, like now, one person, listening to songs, writing blogs. I could not enjoy it more!

Blood is thicker that water. The bond of the family members is always stronger than anything, than whatever you think. Stay close, be involved in every family event. Pay compassion to anyone in the family, love them. That's the word, LOVE them! Before it's too late......

There is nothing as eternity...cherish the present moment, love everyone around you, around me...

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