Valentine

Almost one week after Valentine's Day.

14/02 to me, it's just another usual Saturday, stayed at my hostel room, took as much rest as possible.

Seeing those couples were so busy and troubled about program planning and deciding what kind of gift should be given to their significant one. That has created a need in the market. The market was really flooded by so many kinds of commercial products, targetting the lovebirds. Love is blind, purchase for love is blind, too?

Anyway, for us, young adults, how should be love like? Taking care of each other, enjoying the warmth of being loved and loving, then...what should be done practically, to express your love and care? How many phone call shall be done? How many sms per day? How often going out together? How many movies shall be watched?

To me, i think the ideal relationship is being together with an admired, loved one. There is always joy and pleasure and peace, needless to count the phone call, sms, movies, shopping frequency. The two would be feeling the existence and care of each other, needless to speak much, needless to meet much. You can sail away, you can fly away...only deep in your heart, you know, your loved knows, both of you are connected, regardless of the physical distance. Freely doing anything you like. Then once a while, the two would do ANYTHING with their interest together...adventuring, exploring, escaping the bored daily routine.

Some says, love is selfish. I agree to a certain extent. So, the above ideal dream is almost impossible to be existed to both who claim to be COUPLE.

Therefore, for those worship freedom...stay single.

Endure the LONELINESS, as it is the opportunity cost of FREEDOM.